Community guidelines

Updated 27 September 2026 · Adelaide, South Australia · Adults 18+

Treat people with dignity. Consent, boundaries and truthful information matter here.

• Be at least 18 and use your own account. Do not impersonate someone, falsify age or submit another person’s verification material.
• Respect a no, a request for space and a block. No harassment, stalking, coercion, threats, hate, repeated unwanted contact or attempts to get around someone’s boundaries.
• No scams, money requests, fraudulent investment offers, spam or commercial solicitation.
• Do not share someone’s private information or intimate material without permission. Do not solicit or distribute sexual material involving children, sexual exploitation, terrorist material or other unlawful content.
• Do not pressure people to disclose personal experiences, medical information or intimacy preferences. An answer to a questionnaire is never consent to an activity.
• Be accurate about height, appearance and relationship intentions. These are self-reported and are not independently proven by the questionnaire.

If a rule is broken

Use Report on the match or conversation. Reporting also blocks the pair. A reviewer may investigate, restrict or suspend an account according to the circumstances. Serious risks may require immediate action; a report alone is not proof of wrongdoing. You can appeal a decision.

Do not download or forward suspected child-abuse material to us. Report the location or account instead. For immediate danger call 000; for online abuse see eSafety’s reporting options.